Boundaries face to face : how to have that difficult conversation you've been avoiding / Henry Cloud and John Townsend.
Publication details: Grand Rapids, Mich. : Zondervan, c2003Description: 266 p. ; 24 cmISBN: 0310221528; 9780310221524Subject(s): Conflict management -- Religious aspects -- Christianity | Conversation -- Religious aspects -- Christianity | Interpersonal conflict -- Religious aspects -- ChristianityDDC classification: 158.2 LOC classification: BV4597.53.C58 | C59 2003Online resources: Table of contents only | Publisher description | Sample textItem type | Current library | Call number | Status | Date due | Barcode |
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外文書 | 台灣正道福音神學院圖書館 | BV4597.53.C58 C59 2003 (Browse shelf(Opens below)) | Available | LS0024703 |
Part I. Why you need to have that difficult conversation -- The conversation can change your life -- The benefits of a good conversation -- Part II. The essentials of a good conversation -- Be emotionally present -- Be clear about "you" and "I" -- Clarify the problem -- Balance grace and truth -- Stay on task -- Use the formula, when you do "a," I feel "b" -- Affirm and validate -- Apologize for your part in the problem -- Avoid "shoulds" -- Be an agent for change -- Be specific -- Differentiate between forgiving and trusting -- Part III. Seeing how it's done -- Telling people what you want -- Making someone aware of something -- Stopping a behavior -- Dealing with counterattack and other problems -- Part IV. Getting ready to have the conversation -- Why you need to get ready -- How to get ready -- Part V. Having the conversation with people in your life -- With your spouse -- With someone you're dating -- With your kids -- With your parents -- With your adult children -- At work -- With people in authority.